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Dating safely

Most people you meet are exactly who they say. These habits protect you from the few who aren’t.

Report romance fraud to the right place

In England, Wales and Northern Ireland, report fraud to Report Fraud at reportfraud.police.uk or on 0300 123 2040. It replaced Action Fraud in December 2025. In Scotland, call Police Scotland on 101. Report the profile to us too.

Source: Report Fraud: Report Fraud service goes live

Never send money to someone you haven't met

Report Fraud warns never to send money, cryptocurrency or gift cards to someone you haven't met face to face. Be wary of excuses for avoiding a live video call, or stories about emergencies, investments or travel costs. If you've already paid, contact your bank straight away.

Source: Report Fraud: Romance fraud costs UK victims £102 million as cases rise sharply

Meet in public and tell a friend

Get Safe Online suggests telling a friend or family member who you're meeting and where. Keep your phone on, and keep your home address and workplace private until you trust someone. Be wary of anyone who asks you to keep them a secret.

Source: Get Safe Online: Keep online dating safe this Valentine's, and every day

Further readingOur sister site Smooch explains how romance fraud works and how to report a romance scam in the UK. WhichDating, our sister review site, explains the signs of a dating scammer.

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