# Seek My Toy Boy

> Seek My Toy Boy is a UK dating site for confident older women and the younger men who want to date them, built on mutual respect. Every photo is checked by a person, and members who pass an ID check get a Verified badge. Joining and browsing are free.

Seek My Toy Boy is part of High Intent Media Inc and runs on the DatingPartners.com platform.
WhichDating, our sister review site, reviews it here: https://www.whichdating.com/reviews/seekmytoyboy/

## Key pages
- [Home](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/): Home
- [Cities](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/cities/): Cities
- [London](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/cities/london/): London
- [Manchester](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/cities/manchester/): Manchester
- [Birmingham](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/cities/birmingham/): Birmingham
- [Bristol](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/cities/bristol/): Bristol
- [Newcastle upon Tyne](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/cities/newcastle/): Newcastle upon Tyne
- [Edinburgh](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/cities/edinburgh/): Edinburgh
- [Guides](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/guides/): Guides
- [Handling other people's opinions about your age gap](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/guides/handling-other-peoples-opinions/): Friends or family judging your age gap? Calm, practical ways to talk it through, protect your relationship and give people time to come round.
- [Children and age-gap dating](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/guides/children-and-age-gap-dating/): One of you wants children and the other already has them, or doesn't. Honest facts on age and fertility, and how to raise it early and kindly.
- [Money and age gaps](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/guides/money-and-age-gaps/): Earn or own very different amounts? How couples share costs fairly, what living together means legally, and why your will matters.
- [Members](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/members/): Members
- [Maureen](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/members/maureen-london/): Maureen
- [Tom](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/members/tom-manchester/): Tom
- [Susan](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/members/susan-birmingham/): Susan
- [Mark](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/members/mark-bristol/): Mark
- [Janet](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/members/janet-newcastle-upon-tyne/): Janet
- [Dan](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/members/dan-edinburgh/): Dan
- [Sheila](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/members/sheila-london/): Sheila
- [Sam](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/members/sam-manchester/): Sam
- [Where to meet](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/where-to-meet/): Where to meet
- [What’s on](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/whats-on/): What’s on
- [How we verify](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/how-we-verify/): How we verify
- [Dating safely](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/safety/): Dating safely
- [Questions](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/faq/): Questions
- [About](https://www.seekmytoyboy.com/about/): About

## Facts
- Is it free? Yes, joining, making a profile and browsing are free. You need a membership to read and reply to messages, and you'll see the options before you pay anything.
- How do I know people are real? Every photo is checked by a person before it goes live. Members who pass an ID check carry a Verified badge, so you can see who has proved who they are.
- What age counts as a toy boy? There's no fixed rule. It simply means a man who is younger than the woman he's dating. What matters is that you both want the same thing.
- Where can older women meet younger men in the UK? Online is the easiest start. Offline, try running groups, parkrun, gallery lates and arts festivals, where mixed ages are normal.
- How do I tell my adult children I'm dating a younger man? When you feel sure, and one at a time if you can. Plan what you want to say, and give them time to get used to the idea.
- Who pays on an age-gap date? Whoever you agree should. Many couples take turns. Talk about it lightly early on so nobody feels awkward.